Monday, July 26, 2010

No One Stops To Say "Thank You" Anymore

                                                          My Personal Reaction
     

                      People who do not know their ethics and the basics social graces are often misunderstood as uncivilized people.To many, they look funny, awkward,uneducated and ignorant.Imagine a well-known local homeless man in the article who sets as an example of having good manners towards the people surrounds him.What do you think will people say about you?

                       For me,manners are based on our brotherly and sisterly love towards others."Making them feel that they are valued and important." I learned more lessons from this article such that I must treat people equally even from different tribes,races and status in life. I must discover,too,the barriers for developing  my manners and correct it in a way that I can progressively give  respect and value  others integrity.I must develop my habit of giving positive manner towards others and must be sensitive enough to weigh respect to them as they are.
                      I was impressed  and enlightened about this article.It illustrates  how I should develop and show good manners towards  other people that I am encountering everyday.It reminds me always  how good manners are important and useful in my everyday life and even my lifestyle as well.This article gave me a fresh-inspiring lesson on how I develop my treatment towards others.I am so thankful with my parents that they taught me to respect and value others lives which I keep 'til this time.And it is absolutely true that adequate parenting is the major factor in teaching,motivating and guiding children to live a life with good manners towards their parents, siblings,  to their selves and to others especially to the elderly.

                     Manners also serve as a tool which provides and guides every individual to balance own attitude towards others and sustain a good treatment towards other people.In fact,it takes me to the point of realization that people come and go,so the best thing to do is show respect and be courteous enough.
                     Therefore, manners require self-discipline,respect and love.A person who respects and has a love to others will always be considerate and tactful in his words,expressions and deeds.Manners can be done using magic words such that "Thank you",Excuse me" and others,and using gestures and actions like "Extending a helping hand"and "Any act of charity".And  above all respect God and  be courteous to His creature.

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